Should Men Be Allowed to Buy ‘Plan B’?
A New Jersey man learned the hard way that some folks aren’t ready for men to play an equal role in contraception.There is no shortage of calls for men to “step up” when it comes to parenting and...
View ArticleWhy Can’t Jay Smooth Support Both Men’s Rights and Anita Sarkeesian?
Danny agrees with Ill Doctrine’s Jay Smooth about standing up against the attacks on Anita Sarkeesian. He just wishes the message hadn’t been delivered in a way that dismissed men’s issues as “blah...
View Article“I don’t share things online to express my masculinity, but to explore areas...
This is a comment by Alastair on the post “Manteresting vs Pinterest – Divided We Fail“.“A few observations:“1. The demographics of Pinterest users in the UK differed markedly from those in the US...
View ArticleBlacklisted From History: A History of the Men’s Rights Movement
Men’s rights activism has had many names since its inception in the 1920s.Imagine a black rights activist who does not know who Malcolm X was. Imagine a women’s rights activist who could not rattle...
View Article“If female culture picks up bad habits from men, it only makes the problem...
This is a comment by 1753 on the post “TubeCrush: “Homage to the Hommes” or Unauthorized Exploitation of Men?”“Complicated question. Now, I’m going to start this off by saying that I’m pretty much a...
View ArticleThis Much I Know To Be True
Talking about the most difficult parts of manhood—like race, rape, addiction, parenting, porn, divorce, depression, guns, prison, war and suicide—have a way of stirring up great waves of controversy...
View ArticleWOW! See What a Civil, Intelligent Feminism/Men’s Rights Dialogue Looks Like
The partisan voices that seek to maintain the ideological status quo will continue to encourage us to go binary and fight. But here’s what happens when they don’t get their way. Recently, I posted an...
View ArticleIn Defense of Manic Pixie Dream Girls and the People Who Love Them
N.C. Harrison attempts to redefine a hackneyed trope while coming to terms with his own masculinity. The Manic Pixie Dream Girl, or Boy if that better fits your mode of sexual orientation and...
View ArticleAmerica’s Angry White Men
Michael Kimmel explains that today’s Angry White Men are looking backward, nostalgically at the world they have lost.–Remember Howard Beale? Played by Peter Finch in the movie Network (1976), the...
View ArticleThe Myth of the Alpha Male
James Fell wants guys to see that the entire concept of being an “alpha” is dangerous and completely untrue.Something terrible happened.I’m always worried writing about this stuff. Will you think I’m...
View ArticleWhy Men Need a Movement (And Why It Isn’t “Men’s Rights”)
Matthew Dean believes that fighting for other people is noble. And he believes that fighting for women and women’s rights is noble. But he also sees the need for men to fight for the specific issues...
View Article5 Lies that Distort Male Sexuality and Hurt Men
The messages we receive about sex hurt men in a myriad of ways, too.______ By Jamie Utt Trigger Warning: Sexual Violence and AbuseSome of the most important lessons I’ve learned in life came through...
View ArticleI’m An MRA-Bashing Feminist — But Because I’m a Man, Trolls Leave Me Alone
No one has ever threatened violence against me, or said I was too ugly to rape. Why? Male privilege._____By James S. FellCheck out more stories from Ravishly’s special series on misogynist trolling...
View ArticleMen’s Violence Against Women
7 attitudes that have to change–––The tragic and senseless murder of 17 year-old Masa Vukotic, who was attacked as she jogged around a park in Melbourne, Australia, last week was met with a broad...
View ArticleOn the Curious Dialectic of the Men’s Rights Movement
Jeremy Brunger deconstructs the Men’s Rights Movement, piece by twisted piece.___by Jeremy BrungerI remember being told by a rather popular friend of mine in college, he playing the wooing sage and me...
View Article5 Ways to Fix (and Feminize) the Man Cave
Let’s make the “male spaces” feminist already. —Men, we need to dismantle the Man Cave.Of course, all people need spaces where they’re allowed to be as messy, noisy, or as emotionally vulnerable as...
View ArticleWhy We’re all Fragile Snowflakes
Embed from Getty Images.I’m a fragile snowflake. So are you.I don’t mean this ironically, and I don’t mean it in the same sense as “We’re all racist.” I mean that, in the eyes of someone else, someone...
View ArticleJames and the Giant Screed
Embed from Getty Images—I have a confession. I used to be a Men’s Rights Activist.I’ve been mulling an essay on this for a while now, but James and the Giant Screed has brought it to the surface.In...
View ArticleThe New Man: A Primer on What it Means to Be a Man in the 21st Century
— Every guy in America has, at some point, been told to “act like a man.” It’s a saying meant to inspire you to be tougher and less emotional. At least I think that’s the point—although I remember...
View ArticleBeing a Man
I am a white man. This essay is about my gender, but first I’ll talk about my race. ◊♦◊ With my skin I inherit generations of abuse against people who are not white. This includes people whose skin...
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